If your first date with her is considered as the first 'getting-to-know-you-better' session, the subsequent programmes carry an unsaid message. I have decided to go out with you, to have some fun together. Under these circumstance, follow some golden ruleswhich demonstrate what activities should be avoided and why. Also covered is what you should do to optimize the opportunity of being with her.

Drinks at Bar The money to be dished out is heavy normally and the whole scenario is very single oriented. Good for starters only.

Dining at Restaurant Where is the creativity in dining out? Except may be choosing something exotic for her or discovering a quaint little restaurant in a more quaint street. But at the end of the day, remember you have to foot the bill. And in return you might just get a peck on the cheeks.

Movies Nothing is as boring as locking yourselves up in a dark theatre. God forbid, if the movie turns out to be bad, it is your choice which is under severe scrutiny!

To add a little spice into the scheme of things and create an interesting environment, try something which has some in-built adventure in it. Here are some easy-to-follow examples:

Local Shops It is difficult to find a woman who does not like shoppingeven window shopping is good enough. The more unusual the shops are, the more energetic she gets. The underground music stores are good places to roam about, browse, share and listen or even buy. Not too hard on the pocket.

Games A mini golf, the pool club or an arcadegames really help liven up the evening.

Cooking demonstration Show how domestic you can get. Take her to a cookery program. Immediately shows you care for such otherwise feminine stuff.

Flea markets, bazaars, or fairs These places can also generate a lot of fun. The antiques, second-hand goods stores are all extremely stirring experiences. And a fair is always fun for people of all ages. Time clicks away in a jiffy.

Click! click! - the photo shoot I have always found this activity extremely creative. And it's not very expensive to carry out. Get a digital camera, make your date the subject for the day, and go on clicking ! She feels like a queen the whole time and never mind if all the pictures are taken with her eyes shut! You can have loads of fun even discussing this topic later.

Any venues with a strange or dramatic (historical) background Castles, old houses, ruins. But before taking her to such places, do a bit of homework. Let her not find out your poor grades in ancient history!

The above-mentioned activities are very useful because it helps you save your precious dollars, at the same time does not make any compromise on the quality time that both of you decide to have together. Events like candle-lit dinners, etc can be reserved for a later date. Creativity and being 'original' is what will keep her attracted to you. Brass tacts of romancing can be organized later, when you know each other better.